Does the fact that I’m not ready to sleep in the same bed with my husband since learning of his affair mean that I haven’t forgiven him? Several months ago I discovered that he had been involved with another woman for more than four years. He’s sorry about it now and has cut off the relationship, but for some reason I’m still not at a place where I feel comfortable getting close to him or being intimate with him. He’s frustrated by this and says that I obviously haven’t forgiven him. He has also suggested that it might be best if he sleeps at a friend’s house (of the same sex) until I’m ready to come back to bed with him. What should I do?