Kusemqoka kanganani ukuhlale kuhlale umndeni ube nethuba lokuxoxa? Emshadweni wethu ukuxoxa sekube yingwadla eside isikhathi,kodwa mumva nje sengiqaphele ukuthi lenkinga isithungele nasezinganeni: kubukeka akasekho layikhaya onesikhathi sokuxoxa nomunye.Angazi lokhu kwenzeke kanjani ,futhi ngiyamangala ngokukushoyo ngempilo yomndeni kwezobudlelwane.Kodwa ngingenze njani ukucima lomhlolo?