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Episode 3:
Use the Magic Word with Your Strong-Willed Child

The “magic word” works eight times out of ten when asking your child to do something. Learn what it is and how to use it in this third episode.

Watch the video below to get started. Then, check out the Scripture verse, discussion questions, prayer, and additional resources.

 

Step 1: Watch Episode 3

Step 2:
Read and Meditate on Scripture

“With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.”

(Proverbs 25:15)

Step 3:
Questions For Discussion

  1. Why do you think it helps to say “the magic word” after a request? Do you think you’ll try this with your child?

  2. When making requests, which are you: hesitant, firm, or aggressive? If you’re hesitant or aggressive, how can you change your tone?

Step 4:
Take Time in Prayer

God,
Help me use my words well when speaking to my child.
Give me the wisdom and patience to ask them to do things without stirring them to anger.
In Jesus’ name I pray,
Amen.

Other Resources

The New Strong-Willed Child

Parenting a strong-willed child can be challenging, but you’re not alone. Dr. James Dobson offers expert insights on understanding their unique traits, disciplining with love, and guiding them toward strong character.

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Respectable Parents Respectful Kids

Have you lost your authority as a parent? In this book, you’ll learn how to rebuild healthy authority, balance discipline, and create lasting influence in your children’s lives.

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