Episode 4:
How to Have Healthy Conflict

Welcome to the fourth (and final) episode of the “Healthy Conflict in Marriage” video series.

When you’re charged up with emotion, you have to deal with yourself first. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discuss some of the things they do to calm down and commit to coming back for a healthy conversation.

After watching the video, discuss the questions provided, take some time to reflect on scripture, and explore additional resources on this topic.

 

Step 1: Watch Episode 4

Step 2:
Read and Meditate on Scripture

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.”

(John 15:12)

Step 3:
Explore these Discussion Questions
with Your Spouse

1. What is one thing you can do to calm down before talking through conflict?

2. What are some emotions you feel when experiencing conflict?

3. Why do you think identifying your emotions is important?

Other Resources

Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance (Book)

With practical advice and stories from their own relationship and counselling experiences, the Smalleys explore 12 biblically based strategies to help you work around roadblocks, create successful communication patterns, and build a romance that lasts a lifetime.

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