Why can’t I have a biblically based family with multiple partners? Most of the great men of the Bible – Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon – had many wives. Given your ministry’s strong commitment to the Scriptures, I can’t see why you’re against things like polygamy and polyamory. I consider myself a polyamorous Christian. I love several different women, and there’s no reason we can’t build a strong family together on a foundation of consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy. When did the “change” occur that established marriage as a covenant relationship between one woman and one man?