Becoming a Selfless Spouse

dawn-sunset-couple-loveI was exhausted and ready for bed, but my wife, Christi, was relentless. “Honey, I really want to go out to one nice dinner with you. Please, will you get dressed up?” she pleaded.

It was already 9:30 p.m., and I had just finished working one of the longest and hardest weeks of my life at a conference away from home. I was glad to have Christi with me, but I was reluctant to agree to her request.

Though I didn’t want to go, I did it for Christi. I put her desires before my own. And the result was an unforgettable experience together. Our dinner that night was one of the most elegant meals we have ever had.

When the apostle Paul compares marriage to our relationship with Jesus (Ephesians 5:25-32), he wants us to understand that the principles that apply to Jesus’ Read more

A Voice For Your Children

A Voice For Your Children

 

by Maxine Marsolini

Whatever your divorce situation, it’s up to you to shield your children, represent their best interests, and create stability for them.

If you’re currently going through or have gone through a divorce, you have the responsibility of ensuring that your child’s needs are fully met in spite of the turmoil between you and your ex-spouse. Parents are called to become an advocate during a divorce, but the legal forum can be intimidating and emotionally overwhelming. It’s important to navigate through the process well, because the quality of your child’s life is affected by your decisions and actions.
Are you sensitive to your child’s needs?

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Healing the Wounds of Emotional Abuse

"There comes a critical time in each person’s life when the truth is accessible. Faced with it, you can either run and hide, denying it, or you can face your truth, accept it, and grow stronger," wrote Gregory Jantz in Healing the Scars of Emotional Abuse

If you are reading this article, chances are you or someone you love is in an emotionally abusive relationship. Your abuser may be a spouse, a boss, a brother or a sister. You may have tried to ignore it, deny it and fix it. Perhaps you have even tried to accept it. But it hasn’t worked. This is your moment of truth. Are you willing to do what it takes to break the cycle of abuse in your life?

While the optimum situation is for both parties in an abusive situation to seek help, Dr. Tim Clinton, President of the American Read more

Where Is God in the Midst of All My Troubles?

by J. Budziszewski

Trouble suffocates me. Worry entangles me. By night I can’t sleep, by day I can’t rest. The burden of suffering is intolerable. Where is God? Does He know, or are my prayers heard only by the wall? Is He near, or somewhere distant, only watching?

If you hurt enough to ask such questions, you deserve an answer.

Some people think that you don’t. You’re sick, you’re dying, you’ve been deserted, you’ve lost a child, you’re innocent but accused of wrongdoing — and they try to shush you. Their intentions may be good, but they are hard to bear. “Don’t question God’s ways; He might hear you.” In my cry of anguish, don’t I want Him to hear me? “It’s probably for your own good.” If I’m to be tormented for my own good, don’t I get a say in the matter? “I’m sure there’s a good reason.” Read more